The note I left for my husband.I?ve realized a lot of things about my marriage lately. Mainly – how much I love my husband and what a fundamentally good human being he is. Yes, of course I knew that long ago, but after being together for nearly a decade, sometimes we fail to remember the things that make someone so appealling.

Making my marriage a priority makes me happy and I hope that even if only by proxy, my husband feels that. We?ve been taking the time lately to kind of step back and appreciate one another and I think it?s something we both needed in an almost unconscious way.

And so at night, when we?re curled up next to each other reading, watching tv or just giggling I am so thankful that fate threw us together, even when he?s a jerk.